It was a garment of privilege and status, showing the person did not have to work much. Then Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her robe of many colors that, Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her robe, : Tamar correctly treated this as a calamity and did not hide the truth that a terrible crime was committed against her.

Jonadab probably hoped to gain favor with David by bringing this more favorable news, but God knew that Jonadab set the whole course of events in motion with his wicked advice to Amnon (2 Samuel 13:3-5). Tamar did whatever she could to avoid this and all the blame clearly rests on Amnon.

So she said to him, “No, indeed! What the Bible says about

Amnon could not see what was so plainly evident because he was blinded by lust. And it came to pass, after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal Hazor, which. Here, clearly stated, is cause and effect. This made David partly responsible for their meeting, just as Amnon got David to allow Tamar to visit him with food. When your father comes to see you, say to him, ‘Please ask my sister Tamar to come and feed me.

a. Jonadab was a very crafty man: Indeed, he was. He wanted every reminder of his sin to be put far away. The power of lust is strong enough to twist the way we see reality. b. Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal Hazor: Sheep shearing was a festive time, and it was natural that Absalom had a great feast and invited Amnon and all the king’s sons.

David was never, The hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. b. I love Tamar: As later events will show, he did not love Tamar at all. After this Absalom the son of David had a lovely sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.Amnon was so distressed over his sister Tamar that he became sick; for she was a virgin.And it was improper for Amnon to do anything to her. “As David had committed adultery, made Uriah drunk, and then murdered him: so Amnon committeth incest, is made drunk, and [is] then murdered.” (Trapp). And Amnon said to her, “Arise, be gone!”. What piling of sin on sin coveting produced! “To send me away like this is a greater crime than what you just did!”.

After this Absalom the son of David had a lovely sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. Here we have the story of the lust-driven affair of Amnon, one of David's sons, and Tamar, one of David's daughters, a half-sister of Amnon. 12 “No,” she said. a. i.

10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the bedroom, so that I may eat it from your hand.” Tamar took the cakes she had made and went to her brother Amnon’s bedroom. Click to enable/disable essential site cookies. Otherwise you will be prompted again when opening a new browser window or new a tab. a.

Let not my lord suppose they have killed all the young men: Jonadab brought the “good” news to David that only Amnon is dead, and dead because he forced his sister Tamar. this was. Nevertheless, it was so obvious to Absalom that he immediately knew that Amnon was responsible.

The name Tamar means “Palm Tree,” signifying fruitfulness. Our website uses cookies to store user preferences. He asked. 21 When King David heard what had happened, he was furious. Rivalry already existed between Amnon and Absalom! a. Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur: Absalom did not go to a city of refuge because he was guilty, and the cities of refuge were only meant to protect the innocent. And everyone went out. a. Amnon hated her exceedingly: This revealed Amnon’s attraction for Tamar for what it was – lust, not love. So Absalom fled and went to Geshur, and was there three years. That's awful! You can check these in your browser security settings.

And the young man who was keeping watch lifted his eyes and looked, and there, many people were coming from the road on the hillside behind him. 2 He was so much in love with her that he became sick, because it seemed impossible for him to have her; as a virgin, she was kept from meeting men. Amnon was sick with love for Tamar, but the fruit of the relationship shows it was not love but lust. Over, and over, time and again, the fellow will press and press until he has taken you to bed, and that’s the last you see or hear from him. Davids ältester noch lebender Sohn Amnon verliebte sich in sie. He is the soul of kindness. c. The king and all his servants wept very bitterly: David is rightly grieved at learning of the death of his eldest son, the Crown Prince Amnon. Check to enable permanent hiding of message bar and refuse all cookies if you do not opt in. Amnon, another of David's sons, fell in love with her.

Please let Tamar my sister come and make a couple of cakes for me: Amnon’s behavior was clearly childish, and David indulged it.

When her father instructs her to help her ailing half-brother, Amnon, she goes and cooks for him.

The fruit of his shameful deed was further defiled when his feelings for her reversed to a hatred against her that was greater than his former "love." Then Absalom said, “If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us.” And the king said to him, “Why should he go with you?” But Absalom urged him; so he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him. e. He forced her and lay with her: This was nothing but rape. In many lustful relationships there is a combination of both love and lust but in Amnon’s attraction there was only lust. b. b. Absalom fled and went to Geshur: This made sense for Absalom because his mother’s father was the king of Geshur (2 Samuel 3:3).

i. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly, so that the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. 2.3. Absalom has killed all the king’s sons, and not one of them is left. 15 Then Amnon was filled with a deep hatred for her; he hated her now even more than he had loved her before. d. Please speak to the king; for he will not withhold me from you: The Law of Moses commanded against any marriage between a half-brother and half-sister (Leviticus 18:11).

You’re no longer a challenge. (30-36) David learns of the murder of Amnon. Come, lie with me, my sister: Amnon’s evil naturally revealed itself. For he had been comforted concerning Amnon, because he was dead. He didn’t need to say, “And then force yourself on Tamar,” because in their shared wickedness, Jonadab and Amnon thought the same wicked thoughts. : This revealed Amnon’s attraction for Tamar for what it was – lust, not love. Ihr Bruder → Amnon, der Erstgeborene Davids, verliebt sich in sie.Mithilfe einer List kann er seinen Vater dazu bewegen, Tamar zu ihm ins Zimmer zu schicken.

22 And Absalom hated Amnon so much for having raped his sister Tamar that he would no longer even speak to him. Please, speak to the king, and I'm sure that he will give me to you.” 14 But he would not listen to her; and since he was stronger than she was, he overpowered her and raped her. (6-10) Amnon pretends illness in order to be alone with Tamar. This may be because he felt guilty that in having so many wives, children, and responsibilities of state, he didn’t take the time to be a true father to his children. c. But he refused to eat: Amnon showed by this that everything he told David was a lie.

Lie down on your bed and pretend to be ill. : Jonadab advised Amnon to deceitfully arrange a private meeting with Tamar. It would shame Tamar and reveal Amnon as one of the fools. c. Put this woman out… bolt the door behind her: Tamar deserved better treatment as an Israelite. It is childish to refuse food unless it is served the way we want it. (1-2) Amnon’s infatuation with Tamar. : After three years, the sting of Amnon’s murder was not as sharp. 7. “They say a man never hears his own voice till it comes back to him from the phonograph. 13 How could I ever hold up my head in public again?

a. Absalom the son of David had a lovely sister, whose name was Tamar: This brother and sister were the children of David through his wife Maacah, who was the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur (2 Samuel 3:3). Amnon was sick with love for Tamar, but the fruit of the relationship shows it was not love but lust. “Absalom’s fratricide would never have taken place if David had taken instant measures to punish Amnon.” (Meyer).

A robe of many colors: The idea behind the Hebrew phrase is that it was a robe extending all the way down to the wrists and ankles, as opposed to a shorter one. He’s conquered, and he’s off for new conquests. Then Amnon hated her exceedingly, so that the hatred with which he hated her. 1 David's son Absalom had a beautiful unmarried sister named Tamar.

Amnon and Tamar, The Beast and Babylon (Part Nine): Babylon the Great. Amnon, Davids Sohn, wird ironischerweise selbst getötet (2Sam 13,29; für weitere Analogien sowie Differenzen zwischen David und Amnon sowie Tamar und Batseba vgl. He certainly was not the last person to do this, and lust often masquerades as love.

1. 2 He was so much in love with her that he became sick, because it seemed impossible for him to have her; as a virgin, she was kept from meeting men. Amnon lusted after Tamar and called it love. In many lustful relationships there is a combination of both love and lust but in Amnon’s attraction there was only lust.

Tamar deserved better treatment as a princess. Then Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her robe of many colors that was on her, and laid her hand on her head and went away crying bitterly. It produced burning hatred, and everyone felt great sorrow. . The hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her: Amnon had no real love for Tamar, only lust – and so he immediately felt guilty over his sin. Do not do this disgraceful thing: Tamar easily saw how evil and disgraceful this was. And Absalom her brother said to her, “Has Amnon your brother been with you? Tamar wird als Schwester → Absaloms und damit indirekt als Tochter → Davids eingeführt. : This was what Amnon wanted. Then he called his servant who attended him, and said, “Here!

David reacted with mourning instead of disbelief. Click to enable/disable Google Analytics tracking. b. It would.

If you really love him and want him, make him wait. The king and all his servants wept very bitterly. a. What's the matter?”. If you really love God, and love yourself, make him wait.” (Smith). 2 Samuel 13 – Amnon, Tamar, and Absalom A. Amnon and Tamar.