And, as your questions suggest, a penis isn’t the only object that can be used for anal pleasure: fingers (nails trimmed, please! Some non-realistic dildos will, for instance, have a knobbly bit at the end to really work on your prostate.

Berlin. Is it safe for a man to insert fingers in his rectum?

Should penetration occur only so far? Plenty of you fellas may be dreaming of a girthy eight incher, but that’s something you’ve got to work your way up to.

The two main types of dildo are realistic ones – which look like a real dick, and non-realistic ones – which are shaped and contoured in more abstract or ergonomic ways for different kinds of experiences.

Sounding is one possible contributor to achieving sub-space. While your anal sphincters (the muscles that keep your bum puckered up) can stretch to accommodate various sizes and shapes, they understandably have their limits. It was something I had seen; it looked interesting so I wanted to try it. YOU GUYS. Tony: Done right it feels like what I imagine fucking feels like to a woman—feeling the shaft go in and out. Plenty of you fellas may be dreaming of a girthy eight incher, but that’s something you’ve got to work your way up to. Cover the dildo in lubricant and put some in your ass too. I also love the attention on my cock. Also, any sharper bits of dust could scratch your insides and cause bleeding. But is finger anal stimulation dangerous as well?

Being into BDSM and fetish since my mid-teens, that was the porn that I gravitated to, so it was probably on a website somewhere. (In case your male anatomy knowledge needs a refresher, the urethra crosses through the prostate gland on its way to the bladder.

Today, urologists will still “sound” a patient if they have a urethral stricture (a blockage or closing of the urethra). However, for this reason, it's crucial to make sure that whatever object you’re using has a flared base (think of the bottom of a spade on a deck of playing cards). Our product picks are editor-tested, expert-approved. That's when it reportedly feels really good.

Some tips though: Don’t panic once it’s inside, even if you’re freaked out.

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Web page addresses and e-mail addresses turn into links automatically. One of the highest goals for a submissive is to enter "sub-space," where you exist without an ego, and are present in the moment entirely. Hey, we’re not judging. This could result in a trip to a health care provider to have an object removed — a decidedly unsexy and awkward ending to your exploration! The sphincter muscles can squeeze involuntarily, which can pull objects into the anus.

I looked it up. Whether you put it on your mantlepiece or hang it from your Christmas Tree depends on you really. Well, almost.

Dildos come in many different shapes, sizes and guises.

As RuPaul’s Drag Race star Tatianna famously says… “Choices!”. Yes, we're talking about the pee hole. In a sexual or kink setting, men aren’t getting sounded to open up blockage. Maybe, with the help of things like this, we'll actually get to the point someday when people can ask about things like this without having to need anonymity.

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Are there OTHER medical risks associated with anal penetration?

It’s good to get the head of your dildo in the right place. Tony: Don’t be afraid of it.

One day we were discussing what our next session should include, and I told her that she should do whatever she loves. Dildos come in a wide range of colours and materials, from black (standard) to neon pink. However, like all good things this requires the presence of the two Ps: practice and preparation.